I'm very frustrated. We bought a house in June. It was a forclosure .. it STILL looks like a foreclosure. My husband promised me that if we bought this house, that he would do the work (with me) that needed to be done. Since June we've gotten ONE of 3 bathrooms functional. We have up to 9 people using one bathroom ...
We've had the paint for that one bathroom since June. I can't get him to prep the walls for me so that I can get it painted.
Our master bath, in order to be functional (certainly not pretty at all) needs to be re-grouted and caulked. His excuse 1 month ago for not getting it done was that I wasn't well enough to help him. Well, THAT day, we did the first grouting. NOTHING has been done since then. Saturday I asked him to finish...he re-grouted ONE wall and then did nothing else.
We have a new mailbox, door knocker and kick plate that can be put on, nope hasn't done it.
We have new outlets, switches and plates for our bedroom that hasn't been put in. The girls closet needs a light, the girls closet needs another clothes bar..we HAVE all of these things, he just won't do it.
He has emptied ONE box .. that I gave him.
It's my job to do laundry (I quit doing his months ago, but we have 5 kids that need laundry done too). It's my job on most nights to cook. He NEVER does dishes. He's either asleep or playing on his laptop. Both vehicles need the oil changed. The durango's inspection sticker is dead and he won't figure out what's wrong with it. He has plans..but doesn't ever put those plans in motion.
I resent that the kids and I have to do all of the work in the house.
I resent that he feel NO sense of remorse that he does NOTHING.
I'm insulted that he seems to think this is MY job, while working full time, making more money than he does.
He'll ask if I'm mad. What is the point of telling him yes and then why? I've told him before, he doesn't seem to give a shit.
I don't know what to do.
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